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HOW TO LIVE WHAT YOU REALLY ARE?

In a way the recognition of what you are, or initial awakening, is the easy part. But living as that is the real challenge. As much as it may try, thought can not help out. Whatever ideas you may have about how this should be lived, are meaningless. The truth is that you just don’t […]

Video from SAND 2014

Here is the video recorded at the Science and Nonduality conference in October last year. Enjoy :-) http://www.scienceandnonduality.com/oneness-beyond-belief-unmani/  

REAL INTELLIGENCE

Just feeling into the baby growing inside my belly… He doesn’t know that he is a baby. He doesn’t know that he is a boy. He doesn’t know that he is a human. He doesn’t know what time it is. He doesn’t know which country we are in. He doesn’t know that he is someone. […]

LOVE AND RELATIONSHIPS

We long to be truly met, and to merge with the other. We long to be seen as the Love that we really are, and to lose ourselves completely in that, all the while knowing that it is safe, and that the other will love us unconditionally no matter what we do, say or feel. […]

6 MONTHS PREGNANT

6 months pregnant now! And loving it :-)  

PEACE

When we say that we are searching for peace, we usually imagine that peace means the absence of agitation, discomfort or thought. However, if you chase this kind of temporary peace, it is just an endless chasing. When you live as a human in this world you will never be able to hold onto a […]

NEW VIDEO DOWNLOAD ‘WHAT IS THE POINT OF SUFFERING?’

There is a new download on the website, of the recent meeting in Paris entitled ‘What is the point of suffering?’ It is in English with French translation. https://www.die-to-love.com/shop/video-downloads/

THE PARADOX OF INSECURITY

We spend so much time and energy building boundaries, walls and secure places: maintaining relationships, jobs, collecting possessions… All with the idea that if I can get it all perfectly arranged somehow, that that will bring me real security and safety. Maybe that sense of safety and security can last for a while, but inevitably […]

CLOSED COMMITTED GROUP

As we will be living in Amsterdam for the next half year or so, I will be holding a closed committed group that will meet twice a week for 3 weeks. This will be at an apartment in central Amsterdam, and will start on the 15th March. Numbers will be limited, so please book your […]

ROLLER COASTER RIDE

If you are expecting the answers to come from thought, it will only ever be a frustrating roller-coaster of highs and lows. Any answer or solution to suffering, will only ever be temporary – a temporary experience of relief that thought will jump onto saying: ‘This is it! This must be what I have been […]